Married with Children: Harold Sylvester from Tulane Basketball and Pete Maravich to Hollywood

People know Harold Sylvester as Griff, the No Ma’am shoe-store guy who showed up on Married with Children and immediately fit in like he’d been hanging out in our world for years. What they don’t know is that before he ever set foot on a sitcom soundstage, this man was already a piece of American history. I’m sitting on the couch with Harold on a recent Bundy Club watch party, and the story he’s telling me starts at Tulane University in the late 1960s and runs through some of the biggest movies of the 70s and 80s before it ever gets to Steve Rhoades’ shoe store.

Here’s the headline, because it deserves to be the headline: Harold was the first African American scholarship athlete at Tulane University, and one of the early African American athletes in the entire Southeastern Conference. That’s not trivia, that’s a guy whose name belongs in the conversation when people talk about the integration of college sports in the South. He puts it modestly when he talks about it, the way he puts most things, but he was an integrator. His own coach back in the day called him that, and the word fits.

And the playing wasn’t the soft kind either. Harold was 6’4 (listed at 6’6, which, you know, basketball recruiting math, I get it, I’m listed at 5’4 myself), and he was scrapping in the SEC against Pete Maravich at LSU. Pete Maravich, the all-time NCAA scoring leader, the guy with the floppy socks and the magic. Harold told us his Tulane teams beat Maravich’s LSU squads three out of four times they played. I want to live in that footnote forever. The Pistol got his points, but Harold got the W. Three times.

Then the movies started showing up while he was still in college. Sounder pulled him in, then the sequel, then The Autobiography of Miss Jane Pittman. From there it just kept escalating. An Officer and a Gentleman. Uncommon Valor. He says it the way you’d describe a stretch of weather, but those are some of the most quoted, most rewatched movies of that whole era. He was working with directors and actors that, when you look back on the casts, you start nodding before you finish the sentence. Real legendary Hollywood people, in his own words.

And then, the cherry on top, as Harold called it on the call. He came to work with us at the shoe store. By the time he showed up as Griff in Season 9 Episode 11, A Man for No Seasons, the official founding of No Ma’am, he already had three careers most people would kill for. He fit right in with Bob Rooney and Ike like the four of us had been complaining about wives and shoes for a decade. Watch him in the back half of the run, Season 11 Episode 13 T*R*A*S*H and Season 11 Episode 14 Breaking Up is Easy to Do, and tell me that’s a guy who just walked in off the street. He didn’t. He brought a whole life with him.

The thing that really got me about hearing Harold tell this story is how much of it would have stayed buried if we hadn’t done these watch parties. You think you know everybody from the show. You sat with them in the living room every week for years. Then you get on a Zoom and Griff casually mentions he was busting Pete Maravich in college and then jumped to working with Richard Gere and Gene Hackman, and you realize the show pulled from a deeper bench than the credits ever told you. The cast of Married with Children was loaded with people who had whole other lives, and our job at Bundy Club is dragging that stuff into the light one Zoom at a time.

One last thing Harold mentioned: he’s currently working on The Pit with Noah Wyle, which everyone on social media has been telling me is incredible. I admit I’m a hold-out on medical shows, that’s a me problem, but the fans were unanimous that his episode is a standout. Of course it is. The man has been turning in good work for almost six decades. Why would he stop now?

Want the whole No Ma’am watch party this story came out of? Catch the full Zoom right here. Harold, Bob Rooney, Ike, and me on the couch for a couple hours of stories that the show could never have fit into 22 minutes.

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